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Tips For Spotting Male Body Language Flirting Signals



Non-verbal communication is a complex thing. This complexity can get even intense and confusing due to the fact that men and women use it very differently when it comes to flirting!

Men and women send out many different signals when they are interested in one and other. Although women are more knowledgeable about the art of flirting than men they often do not realise that men find it hard to read their signals! Having said that most body language flirting happens at an unconscious level. It is picked up by the subconscious part of the mind which sends a signal, in the form of an intuition or feeling, that the person you are talking to may be interested in you!

This is why using body language flirting techniques consciously and deliberately can be such a powerful way to attract a partner. By knowing exactly how to use this form of non-verbal communication you can easily press any man’s emotional hot buttons over and over again to send a clear message that you are interested. He will subconsciously pick up on these signals without even realising it and find you more attractive as a result!

When body language flirting is used wrongly or in an incorrect manner it can lead to confusion when a guy assumes that you aloof, unapproachable or just not interested.

Therefore, it is important to understand how men flirt and what flirts they respond to. Understanding male body language flirting techniques can make you more likely to correctly interpret a man's signals. Knowing how to use female body language flirting techniques that send him the right signals could be the difference between nabbing that great guy everyone of your girlfriends want or having a string of "hangers-on" who just want to sleep with you!

When a man is ready to flirt, he will scan the room for available females.

If he catches your eye, it is a sign he is interested. His gaze will pass quickly over women that he does not find attractive but will linger a little longer when he sees someone he likes. Men are much more visually driven than women so they cannot help but look!

If a man approaches you he is interested! However, most men are used to getting “shot-down” when they approach women (come on you know it’s true you’ve done it yourself more than once!). Therefore they tend to choose the women they approach carefully!

If you get eye contact with a guy that you like be sure to smile and look back for a spilt second. This is all the incentive he will need to approach you.

When you start talking to him watch his face and his gestures. Men who are not interested tend to close themselves off – they cross their arms or stand with their side facing you.

Watch to see if his face and body language are opened. If they are he is putting himself on display and being receptive to you. His eyebrows raise, the eyes widen, the lips part slightly even the nostrils flare. What this means is that he's opening up to you and dropping the macho image he would usually display to his friends.

Pay attention to what he is saying. If a guy becomes passionate about a subject he is discussing then his is a good sign. He has moved past the superficial stuff and is trying to engage you at a deeper level.

Watch how he sits or stands. A more open posture is a sure sign he is willing to get to know you.

There are very specific flirting signals that you can send him which will trigger responses in him without him, or anyone else, even being aware what is happening. Would you like to learn these secret signals to capture the heart of any man you want? Then read the review of Body Language Flirting to learn more!





Body Language Flirting
updated for 2009

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