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Female Body Language Flirting
Part 9Getting CloserOk, if you have put into practice everything you have learned in the previous articles you will know how to attract the guy you want and have him approach you. So, let's assume you are in that position now fully interacting with a guy. It is now time to take things further!You have watched his body language and determined if he is being respectful of your personal space. You have rewarded his good behaviour and punished his bad behaviour. So, now what do you do? What you should now do is find out a little more about him. You should try to engage him in a conversation that centers on his interests. Men become much more passionate about a conversation that involves what they love. You should also talk about things that really interest you to see if he can connect with you on that level. After all it is all about compatibility. Unfortunately, it really is up to you to steer the conversation in this direction. Men and women are very different in their approach to partnerships and the initial attractions are completely different. Most likely this guy will have approached you because he found you physically attractive. However, do not let this put you off. If you do then you will end up with no relationship. Men are just "wired" differently, that’s all. It does not mean that he is not interested in you as a person! Now that you have him where you want him it's time to do a little flirting! As he has respected your space and only come as close as you allowed him you can feel safe flirting with him a little. He will, by now, probably feel very comfortable with you, just as you do with him, so he will most likely want to take things a little further. It's time to flirt! Light-hearted flirting will help you build a better emotional bond with him and will let him relax even more. He will then open up on an emotional level and feel very comfortable being with you. Firstly, you are going to touch him. You must do this in a very causal manner. If you are laughing at his jokes you can lean back slightly and put your hand on his arm "just to balance yourself". You can also comment on a piece of jewellery he is wearing and take hold of it to "examine it". You may also want to lean on his shoulder or knee for support when you fix your shoe or "accidently" drop something on the floor and bend down to pick it up! All of these gestures are innocent but they will send him a powerful message that you feel comfortable in his company. This will encourage him to move further into your space, cautiously at first but with more daring when you do not reject his movements. Watch how he responds. He will most likely mimic your gestures by also finding an excuse to touch you. If he is a genuine guy then his touch will be very similar to yours. He will not over-step his boundary, if he does then withdraw a little. A man is well aware that a woman has her defences up when he approaches her so these non-verbal body language cues are essential to let him know that you have accepted him into your space and have lowered your barriers. He will then know that you feel safe with him and will also try to gain a better emotional connection with you in the hope that he can get physically closer. Would you like to learn how to attract any man you want? Then visit Body Language Flirting now and learn how! |
