Dating Articles

Male Body Language Flirting

Part 1



The key to attracting women lies in confidence. Unfortunately though, most men just do not have the level of confidence that they need to attract beautiful women or even women that they are attracted to for that matter. Fortunately there is a way to "fake it till you make it"!

Through the use of key body language signals you can fool anyone into thinking you are confident and the typical alpha male! As women are much more perceptive that men they will pick-up on this signals instantly and your movements will send unconscious signals to them that you are a perfect mate!

The first thing to do is work on your posture – especially when you walk. You must enter an area walking slowly with your head raised. You should never be hunched over or looking at the floor – this is a clear indication of a lack of confidence. Initially you should appear uninterested in the women around no matter how gorgeous they are. You will set yourself up as the alpha male who is so sure he can have any female he wants that he does not need to hunt for them. All of this is achieved through your posture and entrance!

You can get a better feel for this, and the other tips in these series of articles, by studying men who are naturally good with women. You will notice that they are extremely laid back, appear confident and at ease with women and themselves.

When you have found your spot be sure to either sit or stand in a comfortable manner. Never cross your arms across your chest as this gives a closed-off signal to others. Remain open. You can even hook your thumbs in your front jean pockets with your shoulders back and your feet a about shoulder width apart. If you sit down then mark your territory by placing your keys, phone or whatever personal items you have in front of you. This sends the signal that you are ion your personal space which belongs to you and you feel comfortable and in control of it.

If any of these concepts are new or seem strange to you just remember that we are animals and by nature we have the same basis mating and territorial behaviours as animals – the only difference is that as humans with the capacity for intricate communication we have elaborated our mating behaviours and made them more sophisticated!

It is possible to become the most desirable alpha male in the crowd simply through body language and the use of a woman’s evolved sense of the perfect mate. Smile a lot!!!!

You have already set the scene to show that you are an alpha male so pouting or looking stern and unapproachable is completely unnecessary and even harmful to your prospects. Men who don’t smile don’t get women!

Before we move on to the next steps be sure to spend 10 minutes a day visualizing yourself performing these steps perfectly. See yourself doing them in your minds eye and watch how that affects your behaviours in the real world!

Would you like me to guarantee you that by the end of next week you will be dating at least one beautiful women and that by the end of 6 weeks you will have a string of them (or as many as you want)? Then visit Body Language Flirting now!





Body Language Flirting
updated for 2009

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