Female Body Language Flirting

Part 13 Flirting Techniques

Below are listed some more flirting techniques that you may find useful.

I have mentioned this point several times in the article however it is of such importance I will highlight it at the very start.

Using body language flirting should be subtle. Never overdo your physical movements. The key is to make them so subtle that the guy reads them unconsciously!

Hair Twirling

Hair twirling is one of the surest ways to let a guy know that you are interested in him. Men are very attracted to certain physical features of females. Long shiny hair is a sign that you are healthy and fit.

As everything in the attraction game is a direct result of evolution men unconsciously seek women who are healthy and vibrant because they subconsciously believe they will have the best chance of giving them offspring.

Although the above statement may seem counterintuitive – after all most men don’t want kids and even totally ignore the fact they have some if it’s with a woman they don’t want to be with – these attraction drives are evolutionary and completely subconscious in nature.

Women want me who can protect and provide for them for exactly the same reasons; attraction is evolutionary in nature!

So, if you want to attract a guy play with your hair. Draw attention to the fact that you are a healthy woman who is fit!

Licking Your Lips

When we get excited our mouths tend to dry out. This is a physical sign that your body is producing certain chemicals that excite you and that your heart rate has increased.

For this reason licking your lips sends the unconscious message that the above physiological processes are at work in your body. A man will unconsciously read these signs as indicting that you are interested in him. Men get very turned-on when a woman licks her lips so be careful if you intend to use this. Subtlety is the key!

Flared Nostrils

According to some body language experts flaring your nostrils is one of the strongest body language signals you can send!

When you become excited in the presence of a guy your heart rate increases. Often blood will flow to your nipples and other parts of your body like your face giving you pink rosy cheeks and red lips (this is why guys love red lipstick). Your heart rate will increase.

The higher your heart rate the more oxygen you need. When you need more oxygen to maintain your current physical state you need to take in more air. When your nostrils flare it is your body’s attempt to take in more air.

This is why nostril flaring is an unconscious indication of sexual interest. A guy will subconsciously pick-up on this and become aroused by it.

If you wish to use this body language cue make sure you don’t go around talking to the guy pushing your nostrils in and out – it just looks silly! As with all body language cues subtlety is the key. The guy will pick up ion these signs at an unconscious level so there is no need to be over-dramatic!

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Body Language Flirting
updated for 2009