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Part 18Project High ValueDemonstrating that you have higher survival value, which women seek in a man, is accomplished in this day and age by demonstrating higher social value (in the mind of a woman it is the same thing).Anything that you can do to project a high level of social value will attract a female. Actually all you really need to do is project a higher social value than your target girl and the men that are around her! One way of doing this is to offer her proof that you have high social value is to approach her with a woman already with you. As you discovered in previous articles women are social creatures and being with a woman already or having women chasing after you or interested in you is an indication that you have high social value. Therefore using a female “prop” to get you into a conversation is a great way of immediately lowering her defences while at the same time offering her social proof that you have high value. Try to impress people is seen as a low value pursuit carried out by a low value person – so don’t do it! Teasing a girl is seen as a proof of high social standing and the better looking the girl the more social proof is given just because you tease her. After all every other man falls at her feet so you must have a string of girls if you are behaving in this way! Demonstrating leadership is another social proof that she will pick up on. If you continually change the direction of the conversation two things will happen. First you will give the group the impression that they have known you longer than they actually have and your interactions with them will be much more comfortable and familiar. Secondly, it will offer your target girl, and every other girl in the group, th eopportunity to see that you are a leader and therefore an alpha male. Using the time constraints discussed in earlier articles also offers social proof that you are in demand. Only a interesting and worthy guy has other people demanding his attention. Telling stories and being humorous are seen as very strong social skills. Learning funny or witty stories and telling them in groups is an excellent way to increase your social value. You can find loads online especially under “best man” speeches. Remember to use hidden meanings in your stories to suggest that a guy with high value that you are talking about is you. To recap; you simply use the word “friend” to a woman when you really want her to think it is you that you are talking about and use an actual name when you are talking about a low value guy! By far the best ways to project high social value is through the time constraints method and by directing the conversation of the group. Teasing is the best way to reinforce this high value while it also builds powerful attraction in your target girl for you! Now, go out and practice!
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