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Picking up Women
Part 38Taking The HintAs you continue to use your techniques and start taking attention from your chosen female you will get opportunities to take things a little further. You have demonstrated high value, shown a lack of neediness and created attraction in the girl so she will start to give you signs that she is interested and wants you to go further in your interactions.You must be open to these opportunities as they arise. If you miss one opportunity or are unsure then do not worry too much as she will give you several. However, if you miss too many opportunities the girl will quickly lose interest. She will either assume you are uninterested or didn‘t pick-up on her signals. Disinterest in one thing but missing her cues will make you look socially inept and thus project that you have lower value. The best way to approach the situation is to assume that she wants you to escalate the interaction. Therefore use physical contact to escalate the interaction whenever the opportunity arises. If the opportunity doesn’t arise then create it! You will know she wants you to escalate the physical contact when she touches you or starts a lot of physical contact herself. Sitting on your knee is a classic move many girls use. They do it in a fun and entertaining fashion that allows them to deny what they are doing should you reject their advances. Touching your hand or arm are also good indications that she wants you to escalate the physical contact – you should reciprocate and take it a little further by touching her face. A good way of escalating the contact is to life a necklace she is wearing and comment on it. Only do this when enough physical contact has been made i.e. hand touching, rubbing your back or leaning on your knee or shoulders. Taking this action without any previous physical contact appears forward and threatening! You can also gently stroke her jacket and comment on the material. After a few practice runs using your opener and getting the group hooked, so you can get close to your chosen girl, you will get into your natural rhythm of escalating physical contact as it is a normal function of human interaction. All you need to remember is that you should not be afraid to escalate physical contact. Many men think they should wait until they are alone with the girl before any type of physical contact takes place. If you were to do this the girl may become uneasy and even frightened. Therefore showing your growing interest through physical contact while you are talking to her is essential! A brilliant way to get physical contact with her is to use the palm-reading ploy. You can make it up or read a few articles online about the different palm lines and what they mean. Ask her does she want her fortune told. Then ask for her hand and hold it while you tell her fortune. If you can make this entertaining and fun she will love it and naturally want to escalate the physical contact. You can also use palm-reading as a vehicle to incorporate your story-telling and set the mental image of you two sharing things together as described in the article on “playing”.
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