Dating Articles

Picking up Women

Part 43

The Girl

When you first enter a group with your target girl in it she may not even acknowledge your approach. This is especially true for women who are exceptionally beautiful. 10 out of 10 women (on a rating system that most men use) will rarely acknowledge you when you approach.

This is fine and to be expected. After all you can’t expect her to lie down in front of you and beckon you on! You must work the system you are being taught.

As you project high value and demonstrate that you are a leader she will start to become more interested in you, especially when you show her a lack of interest. She will want to claim you as a notch on her refusal stick!

Beautiful women are not used to being ignored. So, she will not understand why you are not giving her lots of attention and she will actively seek it from you in the hope that she can restore the balance and reject you!

In order to establish a connection between the two of you where she will comply with your tests you must keep building your value in her eyes and continue teasing her to build attraction.

You must also reward her when she shows you interest by complimenting her on certain aspects of her personality, views or the way she is interacting. You should never compliment her on her looks!

Likewise do not tease her directly after she has shown you interest. Reward her with a compliment.

When she shows you a lack of interest then you must punish her behaviour by teasing her or ignoring her for awhile.

This reward for good behaviour and punishment for bad behaviour not only builds more attraction but it also reinforces the belief that you are a leader and are in charge of the interaction. Unconsciously she will also seek out the reward of greater attention by showing you more interest.

This builds her investment in the interaction without her even realises what is happening! You must ensure that you continue to test her to see if she will comply with your requests.

Failing to do this may lead you to ruin the hard work you have already done because you may be trying to build value in her eyes that you already have!

This means you would miss out on the opportunity to escalate physical contact and may not get a result that night but have to continue the seduction over a few days!

Remember this is all about getting her to invest in her interactions with you. The more she invests in those interactions the more she will want back in the end!


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Part 44


Picking up Women
updated for 2009

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