Picking up Women

Part 8 Creating Attraction

The first part of creating attraction in any woman will most probably seem counterintuitive to you but you must understand that this is necessary and if you fail to do it you will fail with women. It is essential that you do not show any sexual interest in the woman you intend to seduce!

This is the very thing that most men get wrong. They openly project their interest and therefore lose value in the eyes of the woman they want. A man who has high survival value does not need to chase women – they chase him. Therefore, if you “telegraph” your interest too early the girl you are aiming to seduce will view you as having low value and will lose interest in you from the very start.

By showing no interest in her, and actually lowering her value while increasing your own, you will trigger another of her natural attraction switches. Remember women want men who can protect and provide for them (albeit on an unconscious level). This means they want men with higher value than they have! In ancient times the most alpha of the males could chose his partner because he was could offer a female the most value in terms of protection and provision.

As we covered in earlier articles the human race is still at this evolutionary stage and responds to the same stimuli as our ancestors – only the environment has changed!

Therefore, if you can demonstrate higher survival value to any female she will immediately become attracted to you!

So how do you do this?

As I said previously you begin by showing no interest in the woman that you want. This is the first step. Keeping this in mind I will run through the sequence of events that will take place when you find a “target” woman you wish to be with.

1.The Opener.

You will use an open-ended question to approach your chosen group of people (where your target is situated). This question will act as a hook to keep you in the group and enhance their perception of your value!

This is a very specific phase of the seduction and I will go into it in much more detail in the next article.

2.Demonstrating Higher Value.

You will demonstrate that you have high value through a series of methods while showing no interest in your target.

3. Creating Attraction.

This is easily achieved with the correct approach and through easy to learn an dapply techniques.

4. Evoking Investment From Your Target.

Through clever techniques you can bait your target to invest in the interactions between the two of you thus making her view these interactions as having more value (because she invested in them).

5. Building Comfort.

After attraction has been established and guided to its high point you will start to build comfort and a feeling of safety with your target.

6. Seduction.

The actual point of attaining the desired outcome occurs at this time. There is no point attracting a woman if your do not finish what you started. Many men skip this step and end up undoing everything that they did previously. Women are socially conditioned to reject the advances of men so you must learn to remove these last barriers if you wish to be intimate with your target!

In the coming articles I will go in-depth into the above phases that every man must move through for a successful seduction to take place

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Part 9

Picking up Women
updated for 2009