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Selection



A woman’s attraction to a man is based on a different set of criteria. In the previous article you discovered that only 20% of a woman’s attraction for a man is based on his reproductive value i.e. his looks and physical appearance. 80% of a woman’s attraction for a man is based on his survival value, i.e. his ability to protect and provide for her and her offspring!

So how do we use this information to become more attractive to women? Well, it’s easy when you learn about a woman’s attraction switches!

There are a few attraction switches that you can learn to flip in order to appear instantly more attractive to women. One of the easiest is the “selection switch”. We can see this switch in action in the animal kingdom.

A lone male in the animal kingdom will look unattractive to the females of its own species. However, if that same male has one or more females with it, it immediately becomes more attractive in the eyes of all the females.

You should not discount the animal kingdom as being separate from the human race, after all we are mammals. Therefore, when you look closely at human mating rituals and interactions you will see very clear indications that what happens in the animal kingdom is very often mirrored in human behaviour.

When a man stands alone at a bar he looks lonely, isolated (and perhaps a little odd) and less attractive to a female. If several women approach that man and begin interacting with him he will immediately become more attractive to the females who were uninterested just a few moments previously.

To give you an example of how this works think of how men become more attracted to females. A woman wearing sweat pants, a heavy bulky jumper and a baseball cap may seem unattractive. Give her 30 minutes to slip into a tight dress with stockings, allow her time to fix her hair and apply make-up and hey presto she becomes much more attractive!

Remember these attraction switches have evolved over the lifespan of the human race. They are not habits or socially conditioned responses; they are hard-wired into the human brain!

Therefore if you can demonstrate to a woman that other women are interested in you, you will immediately become much more attractive to her!

So how do you do this?

The best way of course is to have one or more women showing you attention. However, if you were able to do that you would probably not be reading these articles! There are ways to use decoys by drawing women into your game without them knowing it and having them unknowingly act as your props. However, for now we will use more subtle and easier techniques.

You can spray tiny amounts of perfume on your collar or coat so that women assume you have been kissing or embracing another female. Do not underestimate the power of this approach.

During your interaction you can ask if one of the girls is using a certain type of perfume. Then smell your coat and say “ah” with a slight smile as if you just figured out why you smelt that particular scent!

Try putting a little lipstick smear on the collar of your shirt or get a girl to kiss you on the cheek to leave a lipstick imprint. Theses are extremely powerful ways to slip her selection switch just in the same way as a girl wearing tight clothes is for you!

I will go further into attraction and how to generate it in later articles. For now, just go out and practice!

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The Mystery Method
updated for 2009

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