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The Time-Limit

When you fist approach your target girl and her group you will not have much time to build up value in their eyes. Girls will just assume you are another “nice guy” loser who wants to hit on them and will try to reject you from the start if you use a typical approach!

You will be taught specific ways to open a group in later articles. However, you also need to be able to display some type of high value from the very outset.

For this reason you will use a fast technique that quickly builds up the appearance of value. When you project value people naturally assume that you have value!

To disarm the females in the group from entering their automatic “rejection mode” and thinking of ways to get rid of you, you can use a simple buy highly effective technique. This technique involves planting the mental seed that you are not staying and are leaving anyway.

To do this you will use a simple but highly effective technique. This technique involves planting the mental seed that you are not staying and are leaving anyway.

All you have to do to accomplish this is add a time-limit to your stay. By telling the group that you can only stay a few minutes because you have to get back to your friends you do two things:


1. Build proof in the group’s mind that you have high value because your friends are waiting for your return.
2. Disarm the women’s natural reaction to think of ways to remove you.


This false time-limit must be delivered with your opening line. For example, “Hi guys, listen I can only stay a moment because I have to get back to my friends but I wonder if you could help me out with something.” Then you go into your opener.

You should reinforce this statement with your body language. By slightly swaying in the direction of your own group you can indicate at an unconscious level that you are just about to leave.

Now the key to using swaying is to do it slowly and in a relaxed manner. Never appear over-excited or hyperactive. This aim is to give the impression that you really are about to leave the group.

For this reason it is often a good idea to be facing slightly away from the group that you are opening with only your head fully facing them. This also gives the impression that you have just stopped for a moment to interact with the group.

You will get a natural rhythm for using your body language to project that you are not staying in the group.

It is really important to use a false limit-limit when you open a group or approach a woman. Remember it not only disarms her and lowers her automatic barriers to your approach it also builds value. So never forget to use it!

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The Mystery Method
updated for 2009

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