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The Mystery Method
Projecting ValueIn the previous articles you have discovered that men and women judge others depending on their reproduction and survival value. You now know that men seek women who have high reproductive vale and women seek men who have high survival value. This is the reason women date successful men because they have high protection value. It is also the reason why models date footballers. They offer the women high protection value which equals high survival value. It has nothing to do with their fame, money or looks. These things are merely by-products of their value as far as a woman is concerned. For this reason it is possible to project the same value without having any of the “by-products” associated with it – such as money, fame or looks! In fact you can create the image of high survival value within minutes and reinforce it within the time of your first meeting a woman that you like! Before teaching you the techniques you need to successfully approach a woman and talk to her you must learn how to control your emotions. This is a vital step and should not be skipped over! Many men fail to get dates with beautiful women because they are filled with dread and the belief that they are going to be rejected before they even step close to her. Using the techniques you will be taught takes practice but it also requires a degree of emotional control. It is perfectly fine to be apprehensive but you must never show it! Therefore the following technique will work wonders for your self confidence and ability to eliminate your fear of beautiful women! Imagine now that you are in a bar and you see a lady that you like. Imagine that every man in the room wants her. She is being approached by almost every guy in the bar. Men with movie-star looks and athletic physiques are being beaten back like lame dogs! This girl is so hot that she seems untouchable to all expect the most attractive, richest and famous men. What chance do you have? Imagine that you approach this woman and start talking to her! What do you see in your mind’s eye? More importantly, what do you feel? Identify the fearful feelings you are feeling. Give those fearful feelings a number from 1 to 10 with 1 being the least intense and 10 being the most intense. Now do what seems counterintuitive to you. Instead of stuffing those feelings down and trying to run away from them allow them to come up. Accept them and allow them to fully express themselves. If you allow the feelings to come up fully they will get very intense. Stay with them because when they reach their peak they start to disappear and disintegrate. Now return to your visual image and give the feelings that come up a number again. Has the number decreased? Keep doing this simple exercise until the number reaches 1 or 0. If the above visual image does not stir any emotion in you then use a visual scene of something that creates strong negative emotion in you instead and follow the rest of the instructions above. You can also use this technique just before you approach a woman when you are actually using the techniques and it will immediately calm you and put you into the correct frame of mind for the seduction. As with everything you are being taught practice this technique often. You will be amazed at what it does for your confidence and dating success! Would you like to be able to create instant attraction in any woman you want? Then visit The Mystery Method to find out how easy it can be! |
